Thursday, April 16, 2009

from the desk of my friend....

Gory, Bloody and Blasphemous

By Joyce Christine Colon

 

Historians hold the future in their hands. 

With the stroke of their pen, you can be a villain, a hero or simply, a nobody. You can be killed, mutilated beyond recognition and even “salvaged” in the pages of history. But all hope is not lost. The good news is, redeeming yourself won’t be difficult because history is always subject to interpretation. After all, there is no such thing as “History of the World” but there is only “A History of the World,” representations of something which is open to discussion. There’s the good, the bad and the ugly. Choose.

Armchair and pseudo-historians often write about the glorious past, leaving out the sordid details. Good or not, however, we cannot simply eradicate nor sanitize history. We must learn to accept the past in its own terms even if it is GORY, BLOODY, BLASPHEMOUS or what have you. 

Live with it. Or die and carry it to your grave.

Until now, I still don’t get it why there are Filipinos who still believe that United States is the eternal savior of this country. We should send them to re-education camps if you ask me. To re-read Philippine history and know that when MacArthur said “I shall return”, he actually meant that he’ll be staying forever in the Philippines. Uncle Sam and his beguiling face of neocolonialism. 

Come to think of it. The marriage of Uncle Sam and Maria Clara is worthy of a production comparable to those big budgeted films in Hollywood. And why not? It illustrates the history of the Philippines in a nutshell, 333 years in a Spanish convent and 50 years in Hollywood, ending up in a blissful, however short-lived, union of two souls who love each other. ‘Till death do us part. Senorita Maria Clara received 20 milllion dollars as a settlement. Uncle Sam was more than willing to get rid of her. He was already captivated by the “exotic” beauty of the Filipinas and he had set his eyes on the Chinese melon, too. Uncle Sam and Maria Clara parted ways as good friends. 

Yes, and both of them are hypocrites. 

Beats me but I’m still surprised, even if I am already aware of it, that some of us still holds to this idea of the great American dream. U.S. is the land of milk and honey. We have lost some of our country’s best nurses, doctors and teachers as well as skilled professionals to it. In search for greener pastures, they left the Philippines hoping to build a better life outside the country. At the height of the increasing demand of nurses abroad, everybody wants to become a nurse. Diploma mills emerged like mushrooms throughout the country producing nurses in hordes. Whatever happened to quality? It’s no wonder why we have too many nurses working at call centers and teachers who work as sales girls. Add to this increasing problem of mismatch and unemployment is the fact that our doctors are handing out their resignation letters in exchange for a nursing career abroad. UK, Saudi Arabia and the United States. It’s a twisted world. I can only pray that my students would not join the increasing force of professional bums. 

Obama wanted to show the world that the American dream is still true. No harm in that. Only that George Bush is a lame duck president. Obama inherited a government in a deep quagmire. Don’t get me wrong. Long before he was voted as President, I already admired him. And mind you, if Michelle Obama is not a brilliant woman, I would personally go to Siquijor and buy some of the best love potions available, to hook her man or much worst, be the next Monica Lewinsky. (Somebody should write about the underside of American history. It would be interesting.) The problem with all these is the idea that it seems like Obama is the panacea to everything. A one size fits all. 

We hope for greater things to come and that change is forthcoming. Good. But putting Obama’s face on everything is overkill. How can you even wipe your tush with Obama’s face on it? Some people would just do anything to make themselves a profit. It’s tantamount to blasphemy. Obama changed the course of history. More than anything else, he deserves it. But we all should learn something from John Kennedy. 

At the moment, I can only think of several reasons for these things. One, our Department of Education published history textbooks with erroneous facts. Again. Or the government allowed the publication of history textbooks with people who doesn’t even have enough qualifications to write them in the first place. For the sake of profit, quality is forsaken. This business of writing history should be left to the historians, not pseudo wannabes. 

Two, GSIS, the notorious blood-sucking institution of this nation, decided to “borrow” our public school teachers money that’s why the latter performed poorly during their lectures. Over-work, underpaid and lacking in recognition, things that best describe the plight of our public school teachers. At some point in my life, I was anemic. But thanks to GSIS, they always give me the needed boost. High blood. 

Third, all public school teachers died because of election related violence. Nobody is left to teach in the classrooms. What’s more? History is going to repeat itself. 2010 is going to be another case of moro-moro. Mar Roxas is switching careers; he’s now a pedicab driver. Take that. Sen. Loren Legarda is reportedly in-love with East Timor’s president. Tama ka Jowa. You call it a bilateral love agreement. Anybody who contradicts this will be included in my wish list of people who will be abducted and beheaded by the Abu Sayyafs. 

Fourth, the students were just too hungry to learn anything inside the class. Therefore, our government through the Department of Education came to the rescue and produced their 18 pesos per pack of so-called fortified noodles with fresh eggs. It is the most expensive noodles in the history of noodle making in the Philippines. This will be distributed for free in public schools as a part of the government’s efforts to address the problem of hunger and lack of nutrition. The intention is commendable but the outcome is gross. 18 pesos per pack is just too much. If this is the case, I’d rather choose to plant "Moringa" to supplement our kid’s nutrition rather than let them eat “fortified” noodles which is heavy on the stomach but low on nutrition. I smell something fishy.

Reality bites? Yes, but this is Philippine history. Don’t sanitize it. 

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new found hobby copy paste and ask permission to people for thier beautiful brains.... 

i admire them... 

Monday, April 13, 2009

6th last words (in local dialect)

FROM THE DESK OF REV. FR.  L.G. ARCAN
"“Natapos na.” (Jn 19:30) KATAMAD. Antidote: “Ang gugma nagaantus sang tanan nga mga butang.” (I Cor. 13:17).

Rev. Fr. Lenjenie G. Arcan

 “Natapos na.” Ang ika-anum sa mga ulihi nga pulong nga ginsambit ni Kristo bag-o siya mabugtu-an sang ginhawa. “Consummatum est”. “May tibod didto nga puno sang maaslom nga bino. Gintusmog nila ang espongha sa bino, gintakud sa tukon nga isopo kag gintunghol sa baba ni Hesus. Sang madimdiman ni Hesus ang bino, nagsiling siya, ‘tapos na’! kag nagduko siya kag napatay” (Jn 19:28-30). Ang ika-anum nga pulong nagasaysay kag nagapakita sa aton nga ginabaton ni Kristo nga ang iya misyon, iya nga pag-antus kag ang iya tawhanon nga kabuhi diri sa aton kalibutan, ‘natapos na.’ Natapos na ang treinta y tres ka tuig nga kalipay niya kaupod ang iya amay, iloy kag mga abyan. Natapos na ang tatlo ka tuig nga pagpanglakaton sa mga duog sa Israel kun sa diin nag-ayo siya sang mga masakit, naglipay sa mga nalisdan kag nagapangasubo bangud sang balatian kag kamatayon, nagtabog sang mga yawa, nagdiskurso sa mga Hudiyo kag nagpanudlo kaupod sang iya mga pinalangga nga mga apostoles. Natapos na ang tion kung sa diin siya ginpasipalahan sang mga nahisa sa iya, sang mga luyag magpatay sa iya kag ang kalisod sang pag traidor sa iya. Huo mga utod ko, natapos na. Kag yara si Kristo subong sa krus, nalansang kag napatay, bangud tapos na ang iya misyon sa pagluwas sa aton tanan.    

Sa aton kalibutan subong, kita nagapangabuhi agud makakaon kag masusteneran aton nga pagpangabuhi adlaw adlaw. Kita may nanari-sari nga pamaagi agud matabo ini. Apang ang masubo nga kamatuoran nga may iban sa aton may mga illegal kag imoral nga pamaagi agud ila matabok ang ila pagpangabuhi. May iban nga nagabaligya sang droga nga nagasamad sang bwasamlag sang aton mga lamharon, may iban nga naga-pangawat agud ila maangkon ang ila naluyagan nga mga butang kag may iban  pa gani nga ginabayaran agud mag halit o magpatay sa ila isigkatawo. Ini tanan, mga ‘shortcut’ agud maangkon ang ginatawag nga ‘easy-money.’  Makaganar sang mga butang indi lamang sa illegal nga paghikot, kundi sa pagpalupos sang pamaagi sa pag-angkon sang mga ini. Kag ini tanan naga-ugat sa isa sa pito ka mga ‘capital sins’ nga aton ginatawag nga KATAMAD. Sang si Kristo nagsiling nga “natapos na”, aton ginmitlang kaina nga natapos na ang mga tinuig sang iya pagpanglakaton diri sa duta nga luhaan. Kag bangud sang paghigugma ni Kriso sa aton nga mga katawhan, iya gin-antus ang tanan nga mga butang, ang tanan nga mga kabudlayan kag sakripisyo, agud aton maangkon ang kabuhi nga wala sing katapusan. “Ang gugma naga-antus sang tanan nga mga butang” (I Cor. 13:7) Gani si Kristo, “nagkadto sa Jerusalem kag nag-antus sing tama” (Mt. 16:21) kag “naggwa kag nagpas-an sang iya Krus” (Jn. 19:17). Si Kristo nangin huwaran sang isa ka birtud nga nagapakita nga ang pag angkon sang mga butang nagakahulugan nga may upod ini nga pag-antus kag sakripisyo. Ang katamad, bilang isa sa pito ka mga ‘capital sins’ wala lamang naga-patuhoy sa pisikal nga katamad. Apang mas labaw sa pisikal nga katamad, amo ang ispiritwal nga katamad. Ang pagpabaya sang isa ka Kristiyano sa iya ispiritwal nga obligasyon sarang makahalit sa iya nga kalag. Ang pagpabaya man sang Kristiyano sa paghatag sang nagakaigo nga atensyon sa iya isig-katawo nga nagtalang, sarang man makahalit sang kalag sang sini nga nagtalang. Gani ang katamad, wala lamang nagatumod sa pisikal nga katamaron, apang kita bilang mga Kristiyano, ginahangkat man nga mag maukod sa aton pagkabuhi, indi lamang sa pisikal, kundi ispiritwal man. Kag ang gugma, amo ang mangin yabi sa kaluwasan. Gugma sa isigkatawo nga nagatulod sa pagbulig sa iya isigkatawo nga nagtalang kag gugma sa Ginoo nga nagatulod sa tagsa ka kalag nga magtuo sa Ginoo.   

            Mga utod ko kay Kristo, isa sa pinakadaku nga problema nga ginapangatubang sang aton pungsod amo ang pagsugal kag pagpasugal. Sa aton probinsya diri sa Capiz, nagapadayon gihapon ang ginatawag naton nga STL ukon ang Small Town Lottery. Ang pagsugal nagahalit sa moral nga pangabuhi sang aton pungsod. Ini sarang maanaran sang mga tawo kag ini sarang na nga manginbahin sang pagpangabuhi sang tawo. Ini ginatawag naton nga ‘game of chance’ kag ini, sa nasiling kaini, isa man sa mga ‘shortcuts’ agud maangkon ang ‘easy-money’. Kag ini dili nasanto sa aton ginapatihan nga moralidad bangud ini “nagakuha sa tawo sa mga kinahanglanon nga inughatag sa iya kaugalingon kag sa iban” (CCC, 2413). Kag kun ang pagsugal naga-apekto sa pagpa-eskwela, pagka-on kag iban pa nga mga kinahanglanon sang tawo, indi na ini mabaton sa moral nga panindugan. Kita nakahibalo nga madamo nga mga Pilipino, imol kag manggaran, ang gusto makaganar sang kwarta sa madali nga pamaagi, paagi sa pagpasakop kag sa pagtaya sa nagakalain-lain nga mga pasugal kasubong sang “daily double”, “pick three”, “Masiao” kag iban pa.

            Abyan, bisan “Small Town” ang STL, ang matag-adlaw nga kita sini, daku kayo kag daku nga kantidad sang kwarta sini, nagahalin sa mga ordinaryo nga mga pumuluyo sa tagsa ka duog. Ang diyutay apang matag-adlaw nga pusta dili lamang nagapalala sa makatalagam kag miserable nga kahimtangan sang mga imol kundi magaduso pa gid ini sang kagarukan sa aton sosyedad nga nagakuha sa mga imol sang minilyon ka pesos. Ang pagpatigayon sang STL sa Capiz, magahatag lamang sang benepisyo sa mga “gambling lords”, sa ila garuk nga mga sumulunod, kag sa iban nga mga local nga mga opisyales sang gobyerno nga amo ang nagasuyop sang kwarta sa mga imol nga pumulusta. Kon ang aton mga local nga pamahalaan magapalapnag sang STL, indi bala ini makatanum sa panghunahona sang aton mga pumuluyo sang bisyo sang katamad kag isalig na lang ang ila palaabuton sa swerte ukon ‘bahala na’? Ano nga mga birtud kag mayo nga huwaran ang mapakita sang mga ginikanan kag mga katigulangan sa mga kabataan kon sila magasalig na lang sa mentalidad sang paswerte? Ay Kristiyano. Panumdumon mo nga si kristo nag-antos sang tuman agud mapatigayon ang kaluwasan sang tawo. Kag dapat bala magpungko na lang kita sa higad kag hulaton ang swerte nga magtupa sa aton sabak? Ukon mag hulat na lang kita nga kita hatagan sang iban na lang kag indi mag bakas para sa aton kaayuhan kag bwas-damlag? Dapat kita magpanarabaho kag indi lamang magdepender sa swerte kag kaluoy sang iban. Kinahanglan nga aton paino-inohon nga ang pagptrabaho isa ka bokasyon kag may dungog. Bisan gani ang Diyos nagtrabaho sang pagtuga niya sang kalibutan. Kon kita naga-trabaho, nagapakig-ambit kita sa dalayon nga pagtuga sang Diyos.kinahanglan nga mangin himpit kita sa aton kabakas kag tampad nga pagtrabaho agud makapahamuot kita sa Diyos. 

            Sa ila sulat pastoral nga ginatiguluhan: “Building a Civilization of Love: A Pastoral Exhortation for the Year of social Concerns”, ang mga Obispo sang Pilipinas nagasiling’ “Ang Simbahan kinahanglan nga magpasad sang igkasangkul. Kinahanglan nga itib-ong naton ang aton mga pumuluyo sa pagpa-umwad sang ila bwas-damlag… buligan ang mga pumuluyo nga magtubo sa ila mga ikasarang, kasubong sang igkasangkol sa pagdumala sa ila kaugalingon, ang igkasangkul sa pagpauswag sang ila mga kinaadman, ang igkasangkul sa ila pagpangita sang desente kag mabinungahon nga palamugnan kag palangitaan.” Gani indi dapat kita magpadala dala sa mga pagsulay kag sayup nga seguridad nga ginatan-ay sang pagsugal kag sang STL. 

            Gani mga utod ko kay Kristo, sa sining tion sang tuig nga kung sa diin aton ginapamalandungan ang kamatayon kag pagkabanhaw sang Ginuo, aton dumdumon ang mga kabudlayan, pag-antus kag sakripisyo nga ginbatas ni Kristo sang yari pa siya sa kalibutan agud maluwas kita sa sala. Aton dumdumon ang dugo nga nag-agay sa iya mga hamili nga kamot kag tiil kag sa iya kilid, aton dumdumon ang pagtuya-tuya sang mga tawo sa iya, ang pagpasipala sang mga luyag magpigos sa iya – ini tanan ginbatas ni Kristo, ini tanan bunga sang daku nga paghigugma ni Kristo – bangud ang gugma, nagaantus sang tanan nga mga butang, bisan pa madula ang kabuhi.

 PANGAMUYO

 O Ginoong Hesus

Sa amun pagsaulog sang imo balaan nga misteryo

Sang kasakit, kamatayon kag pagkabanhaw,

Tudlui kami sa pag-ayup

Sang mga birtud nga amon kinahanglan

Sa pagkabahi sang matarung

Kag kahadluk sa imo hamili nga ngalan.

Palig-una ang amon pagtuo

Nga sa tunga sang pag-antus, pagsakripisyo kag pagtimakas

Amon makilala ang imo labing halangdon nga himaya.

Ginapangayo namon ini tanan paagi sa gahum sang Esiritu Santo

Diyos sang mga tuig sang mga katuigan.

Amen"


Tuesday, April 07, 2009

my wonder pet crazy baby

she is my wonder pet crazy baby.... yup she makes me whole... she made me complete... and i want more.. heheheh....
i sing to her and she shush....and she sleeps .... with no fuzz....

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

stump.

Lately, I have had the strangest feeling
With no vivid reason here to find
Well, I'm a man of many wishes
Hope my premonition misses
But what I really feel my eyes won't let me hide
‘Cause they always start to cry

(this is stevei wonder's lately...)

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until here na lang di kaya ng powers ko...
sharing to the person i know who knows me really deep deep down in my heart...
im in confusion.

carrying my baby while having these thoughts runs in my head
...
yes welcome to married life
and into motherhood.

i think i have a better judgment now of my comparison
between married life and motherhood...

married life is fun but it does not apply daily.. still its between you both to decide.
normally it is being shared ... everything tasks, money, etc etc etc is shared.
but to my so called two year experience. i think it deserves to be said:not shared!

and anyways i do not expect or im not expecting some partners to share with the chores or whatevers...
or just plainly doing the idea of looking after the kiddos while the freakin' mother do the chores... or is doing something for the kidos or for the whole... but how come i get so freakin' irritated>?
bank that into a married life?... syet.

hold on hold on.... time passes and people change...

Friday, March 13, 2009

the dream

was it the mother of all dreams?...
perhaps perhaps,
its been long since i had one
beautifully made for my brain only...
i was with my shiny happy superfriends
well of course there is food and a majestic falls...
and then toink! i miss them totally
went back home only to find out that
yes as i said its going to be very very bad thing,
the idea of the freakin' aircon is so big effin deal!
if you can't so don't!
nobody is pushing you anyway
i told her im not going to since its going to be a so so big deal....
and i was right...
see the chaos?
everything to him is so so so big deal
i tell you my father wasn't like you
never you will be like my father
you are soo far away from my father
tak-an ko sa imo ah.. ikaw lng gapagamu sg kalibutan mo
the thing is so simple....
you you are the one who makes it complicated.
you and your freakin' curly tops
ahhh....
too much of mangosteen is no good!





Wednesday, March 11, 2009

my dream watch

for now yeah.. this is my dream watch... ahhhh... lookeyyy..... 
aint' she a beauty?

Product Description: Suunto Lumi Sport Watch (Women's) - Florette

Lumi is the first Suunto outdoor sports watch designed specifically for women. Sleekly designed with a smooth, streamlined finish, and packed with advanced Suunto Outdoor ABC (Altimeter, Barometer, Compass) technology - the Suunto Lumi is equally suited to an afternoon on the town as it is a weeklong expedition in the Himalayas. The Lumi is more than just a sleek timepiece - amongst its many valuable vocations the Lumi is a weather station, compass, travel companion, a day counter. But that's just the beginning. The Suunto Lumi is a feminine and functional wristop computer designed for active and adventurous women. Its unmatched versatility is the result of years of testing, research, user feedback from the field, and technological advancements made in the Suunto laboratory. Eye-catching Lumi Accessory Packs allow you to customize the look and feel of your Lumi with vivid wristbands as well as protective carabiner jackets that let you quickly clip your ABC wristop to your pack or purse. Or if you prefer, Suunto Lumi can even be worn as a pendant. At home, the office, out on the town, or on a weekend excursion in an exotic locale, the Suunto Lumi allows you to engage and predict changes in your environment in ways that no other watch can. You'll have weather forecasting technology right on your wristop with the Lumi's barometric functions, Weather Trend Indicator, and Storm Alarm. You'll have accurate altimeter information as well, an invaluable tool for climbing, skiing, and wilderness travel. By utilizing these functions and the Lumi's accurate digital Compass, you'll be better prepared for any kind of exploration - in a dense and unfamiliar city or along a silent back-country trail. The Suunto Lumi is a versatile, gorgeous watch that gives you consistently accurate environmental information, allowing you to plan your next move with total confidence. Suunto offers a wide range of ABC wristops, so what unique functions set the Suunto Lumi apart from the pack? Altimeter / Barometer - Automatic Mode switches between Alti/Baro depending on your movement level. Altimeter - Start from 0, measures difference. Logbook. Barometer. Storm Alarm. Weather Trend Indicator. Compass upgrade sights, locks, and guides along a set bearing. Watch Sunrise / Sunset times. Countdown clock. Day counter. Speaks 4 languages (English, French, Spanish, German).

bang!.. i got hit!

yelp.. took hold of my iPod both the shuffle and the video,
dang its already 12.18am, and im no way sleepy finished 6 mini bottles of yakult already,
again yelp! i got hit!... by my angel... again im swooned by the idea of singing... see its as if i left iPod video on the side for like ?? after i delivered my baby?... yes i think so since shuffle has been my handy dandy music... after my headphone got snatched...
and the reason of me wanting a sennheizer headphonem but i think ima not gonna get it.... i dunno i just have the feeling. sob!... what on the background music?... yes.. 1000 promises by backstreet boys and then will be followed by the gabing kulimlim by bituin esclante, shiet! effin her voice is soo i love it... followed by dear God yes southborder and so on and so forth... im music struck... ahhh i miss harold .. especially the time when we we're still jamming everytime i seek my solace at the seminary... huh!... counting the days.... so i got this list of what i want ...numbered though but in no particular order....
1. five new pairs of crocs sandals of diff designs(trailbreak, patra, capri, scutes & algarve!)
2. two colors of sennheizer headphones( neckband and the clip on!)
3. cell phone ( blackberry, LG black label series, samsung blackjack!)
4. game console (PSP2... Wii... ahhh that twister.. i like that!)
5. (this is hard! this should be number 1 - - ) a month in an island with my sister!
6. a baby alive for my baby princess with complete accesories!.. hahaha
7. a lovely home theater, with ziller videoke!.. hahaha
8. a diamond necklace matched with a diamond ring... harharha vanity!
9. a suunto lumi sportswatch (terra)
10. just one ceramic knife!
11. a fergie pepper sandal
12. im still thinking...
... let me sleep.... let me dream.... heeheheh........

Saturday, February 28, 2009

slinging... yup yup

Photobucket so we went to the beach only to find out that the heat of the sun is so so so so much... so i never took even a single chance of letting her play in the sand eventhough i have all the personal effects like where she could roll over.... but the heat of the sun is so so hot and it feels like burning on my skin in just a matter of like minutes... but i had the grand time having her around me.. thanks to this hotsling!.. love it...
see the convinience it gives me at the same time having her beside me all the time.. and she is loving it... whoot!.... we're hot!...they're not!... hahah 
and so the rest of the pics are on this link (click me!)
for your info i am still in the "dream on" stage of that freebie by supermom central.. whooot!.... wanting to get a new hotsling... 
hahaha info.. i buy items online and send it to my mom in US and then when the box is full i get the item.. hahah all for personal comsumption, hubby pays it in credit card!... hahahah but most of the time my mom and my super sister fill it all up with goodies... for me.. ONLY FOR ME!.. harhahr but now its for princess my love already... heheheh see that sling she loves to be in the sling... she sleeps and feeds inside my sling.. i used that even when i hear mass during sundays... i use that during mall time ( damn! when was the last time?..) hahah i don't care... by the way superfriends i miss you all so much!.. trivia:... i cried!.. becuz i miss you!. bwhahahaha!...

Friday, February 27, 2009

twas a lazy day


yup i make her smile most of the time... and i love taking her photo... happy baby she is...

Thursday, February 19, 2009





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and so this is like a biggest dream suprise for me (crossing fingers!!) because this is going to be soo soo soo hot hot hot... yep..
when i was on my last month of pregnancy, my sister bought and gave me a hotsling it is called the quinn stripe, before it arrived i have been like a crazy soon-to-be-mom and happy to let the whole world now that i'm going to have that sling,
the baby arrives and still anxious when will that box of mine will arrive, since im badly in need of a sling to carry my baby, phew! so me and my hubby went to a mall to look if there is something i could in the meantime use while waiting for the box where my hot sling is... and so i saw this one sliing wioth a ring on it, husband bought it for me and yes, it doesn't feels right so i end up like one time use it. still anxiously waiting for the sling to arrive a few weeks after the box arrive jarrannnnnnn!!!! the box is here! and i scoured for the hot sling... and tried it on.. and yep right size.. fits well and yes hubby love the color since it looks like he too can use it and very thankful since its more secure and my princess loves to be carried inside. and so i travel, i can be at the office to help in the business with my baby secured ( mind you if i feel my baby is secured i know i am too!) i even love the idea of nursing her whole inside the pouch! yeheyyyy! nope i don't have the nursing cover but i can hold the outside cover and peep into my baby princess latching on perfectly and cozily 1 hayep a happy baby comfortably milking me, ha!ha!.. and then i have this facebook, i added hotsling becuz yes i am a fan, and then one fine day i get to browse becuz there is an update over hotsling, and wanting to have another one hotsling, this supermom central is giving away!... phew.. this sounds could be great great surprise... yehey...
and then that supermom central blogsite is soo cool i get to read and learn as i am a first time mom, though i am asian i know everything fits so well with me and my baby, for i think that it doesn't matter if im asian and what im reading are for the americans... who said that i cannot adopt the american living?.. vice versa... at the end of my day what matters is that MOTHER'S KNOWS BEST! and i know that it is best becuz my baby is a happy baby... a happy baby equals to a contented and happy moms and dads... whoooooot!!!!

i could be a supermom!..... yehey!!!!